Letter-Writing Tips...
Research shows that writing a letter is a powerful way to make a difference in the life of a child. To make writing Absolutely Incredible Kid Day® letters easier, follow these tips:

1. Set aside 10 to 20 minutes in a place where you will be undisturbed.

2. Form a mental picture of the child and the things that you enjoy or appreciate about the child.

3. Make a list of adjectives that describe the child: funny, honest, smart, skillful, helpful, caring...

4. Be specific and descriptive. Use humor. Try “Do you know what I like about you? I like it when you ...”

5. Remember fun times or special moments you and the child have shared. Refer to these events and tell the child what you enjoyed about that time.

6. Don’t worry about the length. A brief note can be cherished as much as a two-page letter.

7. Write it by hand. Feel free to make edits as you go.

8. You need not limit yourself to pen and paper. Send an encouraging e-mail, postcard or greeting card. Mail it, put in a lunch box, on a bed or read it to a child.

9. Find time to write another letter. Make it a habit.

10. Write a letter right now!

• You always make me smile.

• You are very special in your unique way…

• I know that growing up today is sometimes really hard…

• Did you know that the world is a better place just because you’re you?

• This letter is my way of letting you know that you are special and that someone is thinking about you.

• When I was your age, sometimes I felt lonely and overwhelmed. Everyone does from time to time. I like to look ahead to good things, like making new friends, spending time with old friends or listening to music.

• I hope you discover what your own talents are and share them with the world.

• When I think about you, I think of...

• Spending time with you makes me so happy! I really enjoy when we...

• Has anyone ever told you that you can do anything you truly believe in? You can!

• You can accomplish anything if you set your mind to it. The trick is believing in yourself enough to try…

Sample Letters

Need a little inspiration? Read the letters below, written to real kids by people in their lives in celebration of Absolutely Incredible Kid Day®.

Dear Kristen,

Today is Absolutely Incredible Kid Day®. You are so very special to me, I am so proud of all of your accomplishments. Keep up the great work. You have a heart as big as Texas, and I love it when you sprinkle your happy dust on your friends and family and even people you do not know.

Love, Mommy

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Jessica,

I am writing to you on Absolutely Incredible Kid Day®. And since you are one of my Incredible Kids, you qualify!

I have been bragging about you here at work because of your being selected for the cheerleading team. I know it took a lot of hard work and courage to compete and practice. I will be a “proud papa” in the stands, watching you and your team next year.

I looked over your progress report last night and can see the improvement being made in algebra – keep up the studying and hard work and it will all come together in class.

Well, have a good day and I love you.
Dad

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Dear Pancha,

We love your head,
We love your toes,
And in your book
Please keep your nose
So you can learn
Before you play.
Enjoy your friends!
Enjoy your day!

Love, Mom & Dad

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Dear Will,
Has anyone ever told you that you can do anything you truly believe in? Well, I’m telling you now! Whether you want to be a pilot, a doctor, an artist or even President of the United States, you can accomplish your goals by working hard and dreaming big! Keep up the great work, Will, and remember that you are special and that the world can’t wait to see what dreams you can think up!

Keep dreaming,
Scott